Be Gentle

When Abigail gave David the food and wine she also gave him something much more valuable; gentle words of assurance. She reminded him of the calling that God had given him and that the Lord was in control of everything.

The Lord promised to do many good things for you, and He will keep his promises. He will make you leader over Israel.  So don’t do anything that would make you guilty of killing innocent people. Please don’t fall into that trap. (1 Samuel 25: 30-31)

Abigail knew her words and actions were powerful and carefully thought through each and every one. She understood that the bigger picture of this story was much more significant than that one moment.

She succeeded in calming David down enough that he reconsidered punishing Nabal and was persuaded to leave him in God’s hands. Her gentle disposition and quick actions not only saved herself and her family, she also saved David from committing murders that would not have set well with God.

Jesus is described as being gentle in Matthew 11: 28-29 which reads, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

Gentleness requires great strength and self-control and comes from a state of humility. A gentle person attracts the trust of others because of this strength. Their character is consistent, reliable, and steady. They are aware of the needs of the people around them and willing to bring their natural and peaceful spirit to their surroundings.

Be Intentional about being gentle.

Praises & Prayers

Father, thank you for Your gentle kindness to us. Your words calm our anxious minds and hearts and gives us peace. Help us to cultivate gentleness in our character so that we can speak words that will comfort and encourage others in You. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Messages from His Word

Proverbs 15: 1

A gentle answer turns away wrath,
    but a harsh word stirs up anger.